Unfortunately there isn’t much that Sweezy can do about the parental controls, as the community id built off of a different server system, so if parental controls are to go through, it will have to be done by Discourse itself.
As for not getting kidnapped and stuff, try not to worry. While it is a real problem out in the real world, this community and its staff members are all trying our best to keep people safe here. Don’t talk to people who seem suspicious, and if anyone asks for any personal information, block them, and report it to our staff.
No worry about bad people, I haven’t seen those people in here before. And there are many kind people here to help you with problems, if you sense any threat then just talk to us as we are always ready to assist