Okay, i know you hard to say “no” because you don’t want someone disappointed but hear me out. Because of your innocence, you are very easily exploited and in fact, you are the one who loses and that person benefits. To cure it very easy! But to do it maybe hard. Here is step by step :
- Learn to say “No”
This is the most easiest thing to say but hard, you know what I mean right? So you just learn to say “No” if you can’t do it or the request is dangerous and risky like “Can you nuke warrior cats?” “Can you dance in the skyscraper?” and other. - Be Brave
This is the next step once you’ve gotten used to saying “No.” If someone asks you to do something and you refuse, but they force you or threaten you, don’t be afraid. Instead, be brave and say “No”. There’s a risk of being hit or ridiculed, but the important thing is that you stand your ground and that person can’t take advantage of you anymore. - It doesn’t mean you don’t have friends
I want to tell you, that it not mean you don’t have a friend if you can say “No”. Instead, you get many good and understanding friends.
Conclusion :
Don’t be afraid that people will be disappointed if you refuse. In fact, that’s a good thing because you won’t be easily exploited. However, if someone asks for help because they’re in a difficult situation or wants to give advice, don’t refuse and listen, because that’s actually a good thing. Don’t be afraid that people will be disappointed if you refuse. In fact, that’s a good thing because you won’t be easily exploited. But if someone offers a warning or advice, don’t refuse; listen; that’s actually a good thing. Also, remember! If someone asks for help because they’re in trouble and you’re capable of providing it, don’t hesitate to help.
